Master and Slave Relationship?

So, I'm not entirely sure how quickly I want to rush into giving myself this label. Until a couple of weeks ago the idea of anyone "owning" any other human being was something that did not sit overly comfortably with me, even if it was consensual. I suppose I found the implications of the terms shocking. When recently talking to a female friend about the possibility of a threesome with me and Him I was shocked when she replied "I need to ask my master". Literally, goggle eyed, slack jawed, shocked!

After a couple of days to and fro-ing and talking in more detail with my friend, her master and my guy (from this point referred to as H) I slowly began to understand that her master was an ex who she still has a sexual relationship with and so he gets a say in who she has sex with going forward. Slowly and somewhat uncomfortably I think it dawned on both myself and H that our relationship wasn't a million miles from this.

I trust him implicitly and it is with him I have pushed every boundary I have and spent hours discussing my deepest thoughts and fantasies, things I cannot ever imagine discussing with anyone else and am still not entirely comfortable with. I have consistently turned to him for advice and even approval on my sexual relationships even when not together. We also have the most insane, almost visible sexual chemistry which makes it seemingly impossible for us not to want each other. Even talking about having sex with other people arouses us both. Hearing him describe fucking another woman gets me so wet, and him hearing about my escapades at a swingers club recently has got him as desperate for me as he was when we very first met.


Our relationship has always been that of me the sub and him the dom, and I have wanted constantly for him to be firmer with me, rougher with me etc. We have decided between us that he now has total control over my sex life, who I have sex with, when, where etc. I am perfectly happy with this arrangement as it satisfies my need to feel safe and looked after having had some bad experiences and sexually the realisation that I am totally his and will literally do anything he asks of me is the biggest aphrodisiac imaginable!

Would I say I'm his slave, I'm not sure still. But I have willingly handed over all control to him and am loving every minute.

I'd love to hear from any others in similar situations to see where similarities and differences lay!

:) DD xXx